Your relationship starts
with who you are.
Two clinical-grade assessments. One for the individual who wants to understand their relational wiring. One for the couple who's done guessing.
Individual
Personal Growth Assessment
10 dimensions · R600 · 20–30 min
Couples
Relationship Growth Assessment
8 dimensions · R600 · 30–40 min
Instant results · 100% private · Clinical-grade accuracy
Two Paths. One Practice.
Which assessment is for you?
Personal Growth
Assessment
R600
One-time
For the person who knows something isn't working in their love life but can't quite name it. 10 dimensions of your relational self — clinically mapped, personally interpreted.
Attachment Style — your neurological blueprint
Trauma History — ACE-informed screening
Emotional Regulation — your nervous system capacity
Self-Worth & Identity — the foundation of everything
Relationship Readiness — are you actually available?
Communication Style — what's really happening
Values & Life Vision — your relational compass
Prejudices & Biases — beliefs you project onto partners
Neurodivergence Awareness — unseen friction
Change Readiness — where you actually are
20–30 min · Instant report · PDF download
Start Your Assessment →Relationship Growth
Assessment
R600
Per couple
For couples who are done guessing what's wrong. A clinical-grade X-ray of both partners across 8 clinical domains — revealing hidden mismatches and a precise 3-phase healing pathway.
Attachment Compatibility — your bonding blueprints side by side
Trauma Inventory — ACE scores and what they mean for you
ADHD & Neurodivergence — the friction nobody talks about
Values Alignment — what matches, what doesn't, what matters
Change Readiness — are both partners actually ready?
Communication Patterns — the cycle beneath the argument
Future Vision Alignment — building toward the same life?
Prejudices & Biases — beliefs you project onto each other
30–40 min · Instant report · PDF download
Start Your Assessment →Simple. Rigorous. Instant.
How it works
01
Choose your assessment
Individual or couples. Complete the multi-step clinical form at your own pace — designed to be honest, not comfortable.
02
Answer the clinical questionnaire
8 to 10 clinical dimensions—from attachment wiring to trauma history to values alignment, grounded in peer-reviewed research.
03
Receive your clinical report
Instantly. A full Brown University-style PDF with scores, insights, clinical flags, and a personalised treatment pathway.
The cost of waiting
Most couples wait 6 years before getting help.
By then, resentment has calcified. Patterns have cemented. And you're spending R1,500–R2,000 per therapy session just figuring out what the problem is. Our assessments do that work in 30 minutes — so you can walk into any session already knowing.
Same argument, different day. You're stuck in the loop.
Disconnected but can't explain why.
You keep choosing the wrong person.
Clinical depth. Real answers.
What's inside your report
Overall Growth Score
A weighted composite score with a visual gauge and contextual interpretation.
Radar & Bar Charts
Research-grade visual charts of all dimensions for immediate pattern recognition.
Clinical Flags
High/medium/low severity flags with specific recommendations for each issue found.
3-Phase Treatment Plan
Session-by-session recommendations with pricing for a full clinical pathway.
Deep Domain Analysis
Neuroscience-informed interpretation of every dimension in plain language.
Journal Prompts & Action Items
Pre-session prompts and a concrete checklist for your next 30 days.
Transparent pricing
Simple. Worth it.
Compare that to R1,500–R2,000 per therapy session, just to figure out what to work on.
R600
- 10 clinical dimensions
- Personal growth score
- Clinical flags & insights
- 3-phase treatment pathway
- Full PDF report
- Love language + Attachment profile
R600
- 8 clinical domains
- Partner comparison charts
- Alignment percentage per domain
- ACE + ADHD screening
- Clinical risk matrix
- 3-phase couples pathway
The Complete Growth Bundle
Both assessments. One price. Start with the Individual to understand your wiring, then bring your partner into the Couples assessment with a shared language.
R1,000
R1,200
Save R200Pay R1,000 once, get access to both Individual and Couples assessments
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The Romantic Couples Deck
52 deep-question swap cards across four tiers — warm-up, mechanics, inner rooms, and future mapping. Built by Hakeem to help couples bypass small talk and map their relational dynamics honestly.
Why do you stay?
Knowledge first
The Uncommon Practice
10 extensive essays on love, neuroscience, and what actually makes relationships work — written by Hakeem with the rigour of a researcher and the voice of someone who's seen it all.
Read the essaysQuestions
The Couples Assessment is for partners who want a clinical-grade map of their relational dynamics. The Individual Assessment is for anyone — single, dating, separated, or in a relationship — who wants deep self-knowledge before or during love.
No — it's the ideal starting point. Our reports give you (and your therapist) a clinical-grade GPS. Most therapists say it saves 4–8 sessions of discovery work.
The Individual Assessment takes 20–30 minutes. The Couples Assessment takes 30–40 minutes (both partners complete it together). Reports are instant.
That's precisely why these tools exist. Clinical flags are surfaced with severity levels, clear context, and a specific treatment pathway designed around your unique profile.
Yes. Your responses are never stored server-side. The report is generated in your browser and only persists for your session. We take privacy seriously.
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The most important relationship
is the one with yourself.
Start there. Then build the relationship you actually deserve.