Stop guessing what's wrong.
Start knowing.
The FOLA Relationship Growth Assessment maps your relationship across 7 clinical dimensions — revealing hidden patterns, attachment mismatches, and the exact steps to build something unbreakable.
25-35 min | Instant results | 100% private
Most couples wait 6 years before seeking help.
By then, resentment has calcified. Communication has broken down. And you're spending thousands on therapy just to figure out what the problem is — before you can even start fixing it.
You argue about the same things on repeat
You feel disconnected but can't explain why
You've tried talking but nothing changes
A clinical-grade X-ray of your relationship.
In 30 minutes, the FOLA Relationship Growth Assessment maps both partners across 7 scientifically-backed dimensions — giving you a comprehensive report that most therapists take 4-8 sessions to uncover.
7 Clinical Dimensions We Assess
Attachment Style
Are you secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized? And how does your style clash or complement your partner's?
Trauma Inventory
ACE-informed screening revealing how past wounds silently shape your present relationship patterns.
ADHD & Neurodivergence
How neurodivergent patterns affect attention, emotional regulation, and attunement between partners.
Values Alignment
Money, faith, family, intimacy, ambition — are you building toward the same future or pulling apart?
Communication Patterns
Conflict style, listening quality, repair attempts — the mechanics of how you actually talk to each other.
Future Vision
Do you share a vision for your life together — or are you unknowingly heading in different directions?
Change Readiness
Where each partner sits on the stages of change — from pre-contemplation to active maintenance.
How It Works
Take the Assessment
Both partners answer questions across 7 clinical dimensions. It's private, honest, and takes about 30 minutes.
Get Your Report
Instantly receive a 10+ page clinical report with radar charts, compatibility scores, risk flags, and deep analysis.
Follow the Plan
Your personalised 3-phase treatment pathway tells you exactly what to work on, in what order, session by session.
What's Inside Your Report
Not a generic quiz result. A clinician-level analysis you can take to your therapist — or use on your own.
Compatibility Score
An overall relationship health metric based on all 7 dimensions
Partner Comparison Radar
Visual chart showing where you align and where you diverge
Clinical Risk Flags
Highlighted areas of concern with severity levels (high / medium / low)
Deep Domain Analysis
Detailed interpretation of each dimension with clinical context
3-Phase Treatment Plan
Session-by-session pathway from stabilisation through growth to maintenance
Journal Prompts & Actions
Specific exercises and conversation starters to use between sessions
Real Couples. Real Results.
Join thousands of South African couples who stopped guessing and started growing.
“We were on the verge of separation. This assessment gave us a language to talk about what was actually broken — and a clear path to fix it.”
Thandiwe & Sipho
Johannesburg
“I thought we just had 'communication issues.' The report showed us it was actually an attachment mismatch. Three sessions with our therapist using the treatment plan and we finally get each other.”
Aisha & David
Cape Town
“Worth every rand. Our couples therapist said it was the most useful intake tool she'd ever seen. We skipped months of guesswork.”
Lerato & James
Durban
“The ADHD screening was a game-changer. We had no idea how much neurodivergence was affecting our daily life. Now we have strategies that actually work.”
Nomsa & Brett
Pretoria
One Assessment. Clarity for Life.
Most couples spend R1,200–R2,000 per therapy session just trying to identify the problem. Get your answer in 30 minutes.
Once-off payment | Both partners included
- Full 7-dimension clinical assessment
- 10+ page personalised report with charts
- Clinical risk flag identification
- 3-phase treatment plan with session pricing
- Journal prompts & conversation starters
- Instant PDF download
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Begin the FOLA Relationship Growth AssessmentThis assessment is a screening tool and does not constitute a clinical diagnosis. Results are designed to inform therapeutic conversations. For professional clinical assessment, please consult a qualified practitioner.